Though I almost hate to admit it, the wedding ceremony just doesn't jump out at me as being particularly interested or important. Don't get my wrong; I love Joshua and always will. But in my own mind, I've already made my promise and commitment to stay together with him. I made it years and years ago. So maybe that's why performing stale rituals and repeating after a pastor doesn't appeal to me as much.
But, though I'm bored by the concept as a whole, I have started pinpointing just what I do and do not like about it. For example, I do like being able to share this commitment not only with Joshua, but with our family and friends. And I know that this is important to some of my family, though I doubt if anybody would complain much if we just eloped.
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