Joshua still hasn't officially selected his groomsmen, but that doesn't stop me from dressing the men of the wedding up! Now, though I have tastes that are a bit more laid back, I know Joshua loves the formal and ritzy and classic sort of things. And he really, really loves a good, old fashioned tuxedo. So I'm having to suck up my modern tastes for his sake, here.
cravat. Something about them just makes me happy. But I definitely want him in a silver/gray waistcoat.
But for the groomsmen, I don't know if I want the full dressed up tux look. After all, my bridesmaids are going to be mismatched and a bit more casual; why force them men to look like stuffed up pigs? One option would be to have them in white dress shirts, black slacks, and an orange tie (to contrast my gray ladies), but I'd also love if they could wear orange vests or waistcoats.
classic, good look. Besides, a great stripe or polka dot would make the ties fun and fabulous!